My job and potential future jobs keeps me in southwestern CT. My only other choices could be NY and NJ, so far CT looks to be the lesser evil one. I enjoy the geography, the history, the towns, the food and restaurants, proximity to NYC. Of course the fishing. Quick access to my parents/other family up in the Hartford area.

My brother lives in Colorado. Been there a few times and love it. If only I could see job security there.

The cost of living is no doubt high but quality of life and resources is also high IMO.